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Love Someone? Read To Know What To Do

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Are You In Love? If you are reading this, then chances are very high that you are one of them who’s in love, or really loved someone at some point in your life. If you are lucky to have a loving partner in your life for long, feel yourself blessed, as lots of people don't get such an opportunity in their life. If you are newly in love and own a dream of having a "fairy tale love story", I have some pocket advice for you, to keep in mind just as a "caution". Having a broken heart is something no one desires, but it unexpectedly occurs in almost everyone’s life. Lots of my clients come to me with a broken heart. I observed, not only heart, they are broken in every aspect of life at the same time. LOVE has taken everything, leaving them so alone. So I thought of sharing some facts with you just to put in your memory bank.  At the beginning of a relationship when we know a little about our partner, being hopeful, we sometimes tend to v

10 Child Safety Rules

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We parents devote a considerable amount of time of our life in taking care of our children. Sometimes it's difficult for youngsters to willingly appreciate our parenting style. Still, we never fail to motivate ourselves to give our bests to provide them a comfortable lifestyle. Because we love them to see, safe and sound. Well, “how safe they actually are?” Did you ever think about that? You may arrange the best care at your home, but how safe they are, when on the road? at a playground? inside a classroom? or at a friend's house? whatever indestructible safety mechanism you consider in your parenting style, there is always a chance of getting into trouble for your children. So, we can make kids even more prepared, when we provide, not only safety, but also some knowledge or perception of situations and facts; when they know how to stay alert if anything goes wrong, and make simple common sense work for them accordingly. “Better Safe Than Sorry” Rules

Why You Should Admit Your Mistakes

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    Do you know anyone who never did any mistake in their life? Of course not. Life is a long journey, full of surprises and disappointments. Moreover, we never get our curriculum in advance, to get prepared in our school of life. So, mistakes are obvious. Everyone commits mistakes. It’s perfectly normal and totally acceptable. Now the question is what needs to be done when we commit mistakes? Do we need to carry it on throughout our lives, or leave it behind for the moment when we realize that? There are a lot of ways one can fix this right away, and you surely can do something for it.  'Early detection' is the first thing that can make your position secure. A quick fix can save you from the trail of bad consequences. There is nothing wrong if mischief happens, it can occur at any time to anyone, even if you are aware and alert most of the time. The more time you are taking to fix this issue, the more difficulty you will face. As soon as you realize

12 Ways To Manage Your Toxic Partner

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  Before even telling a single word, I first want you to check the list below to find out if your partner has most of these traits in his (all these things are applicable to females also) personality or not. Anything you can say or do is not good enough Comment on the smallest flaws Drag up your past to hurt you intentionally Acts like he never makes any mistake Leaves you feeling guilty or ashamed of who you are Likes to see you suffer Always about him, and what he thinks, wants and feels Thinks negative, acts superior, speaks badly about others Take up too much of your time to serve his needs Constantly have drama going on Your words are used against you Makes a disturbing statement, then claims you misunderstood what he said Try to isolate you from your family and friends Tendencies to blame his lack of success or failures of others Irresponsible to his family, unreliable in need, arrogant in attitude, envious to almost everyone he gets close Lives in a fa

Three Simple Tips To Overcome Negative Thoughts

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  If you are a negative minded person, then there is a chance that you have a lot of negative incidents or experiences in your life. We ultimately become what we experience. If you can manage to receive good experiences, it is possible for you to live a happy and peaceful life. It is just a matter of time. Stop yourself from getting negative influences by the following : ·        Confront and Distract Whenever a negative or compulsive thought comes in mind, confront it, correct it and distract yourself involving your five senses. You can have snacks or drinks, watch T.V or movies, listen to music, call your loved one, anything that makes you feel good. Encourage yourself to stay positive. ·        Avoid Unpleasant Consequences Watch your words carefully. Take 5 minutes before responding to an unpleasant situation. Prepare a conversation to stay under control and handle situation mindfully, in those 5 minutes. Then proceed. ·        Accept Yourself as

Seven Smart Habits To Stay Positive

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Positiveness is the frequent experience of pleasant emotions. Some of the most common emotions are joy, hope, gratitude, interest, serenity, pride, amusement, love, inspiration, and awe. Anyone can switch from thinking negatively to positively, with a little effort and time. And it is worth it. Positive Mindset: Staying positive doesn't mean, you need to stay always positive irrespective of any given situation. It's really odd if someone dies, and you are laughing to reflect your positive mindset. Positivity means, thinking of positive aspects in every situation with its negative aspects side by side, tilting your mind slightly towards the positive one. Positivity makes us happier, while negativity makes us cautious and careful. Both of them have utilities. A wise brain considers both of them while taking a decision. Prepare yourself to think every possible thing, considering both positive and negative aspects for proper evaluation. Breathing H

3 Easy Steps To Achieve Your Goal

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We all heard it many times in our childhood, and that is “get…set….go”. Here I am going to explain to you, what to get when to set, and how to go. Phase 1: Get ready to know yourself Know your purpose:  The first step in motivating yourself is to try to find out the purpose of your existence i.e. something like who you are and what do you want. Keep asking yourself continuously until you feel you are getting some clarity. Find your identity: Talk to yourself, find out the ingredients you are made of. List your strengths and weaknesses. Analyze what kind of seed you are. Choose your area: Next step is to choose the area you would like to be in. Think, search and gather all the professional areas where a person like you will be greatly appreciated. It is the soil, appropriate for the particular kind of seed like you. Get paired with your destiny: Final step is to shortlist top five among the list you have made. Write down the pros and cons, beside ea

What Does Sarcasm Say About A Person

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What is Sarcasm? Sarcasm literally means the use of irony to mock or convey contempt. It's normally a form of making fun that means the opposite of what is said and made to criticize someone or something in a way that is amusing to others but annoying to the person criticized.  'Using sarcasm in a regular way' can hurt the people around, and ruin   valuable relations  consequently; as it obstructs effective communication.  Intelligent people  value good relations. So there must not be any relevant correlation between having intelligence and being sarcastic. One thing is important here to remember, there is a difference between satire and sarcasm. Why Some People Think Sarcasm a Sign of Intelligence? As we can see, some people think it a matter of intelligence. If you observe you will definitely find, what leads them to think so. They see the outcomes that a person gets as a result after leaving a sarcastic comment, facial expression or gesture

Why We Need to Stand Up for Ourselves

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  Every time you are silent when you strongly need your support, by not standing for yourself, you are doing wrong. Yes, it is. It has harmful effects. It may ruin your self-concept, leading you towards inferiority and depression with times. Moreover, if you yourself are not ready to stand for yourself, then you merely expect any others to do the same for you. Tolerance is good, but not at the cost of your mind and body. Effects on confidence: You may not be able to stand for yourself due to two possible reasons. One, you have doubt about your own decision; and two, you are afraid of some situation or person. In either case, you will eventually find yourself vulnerable, incapable, and inferior. In the long run, you slowly will start losing your confidence, as a result. Effects on mental health: Our mental well-being fully depends on our self-concept, how we feel and think about our own self. If we feel healthy and positive about our own self, it get

What Does Weed Do To Your Brain?

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  THC, or tetrahydrocannabinol, is the chemical responsible for most of marijuana's psychological effects. It acts much like the cannabinoid chemicals made naturally by the body. Cannabinoids are chemical compounds found in the cannabis plant that interacts with receptors in the brain and body to create various effects. There exist dozens, and potentially more than 100, cannabinoids in the cannabis plant, but THC is most widely known among these due to its abundance and psychoactive attributes.THC’s chemical structure is similar to the brain chemical anandamide. The similarity in structure allows the body to recognize THC and to alter normal brain communication. Tetrahydrocannabinol (THC) adds psychoactive (mind-altering) properties that target the central nervous system and alters the brain's ability to communicate between neurons, which is the body's information processing system. It affects the brain regions of the cerebellum, hippocampus, cerebral cor